Everything I Never Told You

Everything I Never Told You Librarian s note This is an Alternate Cover Edition for ISBN ISBN Lydia is dead But they don t know this yet So begins this exquisite novel about a Chinese American family

  • Title: Everything I Never Told You
  • Author: Celeste Ng
  • ISBN: null
  • Page: 487
  • Format: Paperback
  • Librarian s note This is an Alternate Cover Edition for ISBN10 0349134286 ISBN13 9780349134284 Lydia is dead But they don t know this yet So begins this exquisite novel about a Chinese American family living in 1970s small town Ohio Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee, and her parents are determined that she will fulfill the dreams they were unablLibrarian s note This is an Alternate Cover Edition for ISBN10 0349134286 ISBN13 9780349134284 Lydia is dead But they don t know this yet So begins this exquisite novel about a Chinese American family living in 1970s small town Ohio Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee, and her parents are determined that she will fulfill the dreams they were unable to pursue But when Lydia s body is found in the local lake, the delicate balancing act that has been keeping the Lee family together is destroyed, tumbling them into chaos A profoundly moving story of family, secrets, and longing, Everything I Never Told You is both a gripping page turner and a sensitive family portrait, uncovering the ways in which mothers and daughters, fathers and sons, and husbands and wives struggle, all their lives, to understand one another.

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    1. “Before that she hadn’t realized how fragile happiness was, how if you were careless, you could knock it over and shatter it.”This book is a fantastic character portrait. I don't read these kinds of stories too often - family dramas with a focus on the everyday - but when I do I'm usually pleasantly surprised. As much as I'm a lover of amazing story arcs with problems and terrifying consequences, there really is something so fascinating about people.A book that focuses on the dynamics betw [...]

    2. ENTER THE GIVEAWAY!!this book is absolutely perfect's easily one of the best contemporary family dramas i have ever read, and i have read more than a few's prose is outstanding, and her characters are vibrant, completely three-dimensional, and the way their stories knot up in each other is superb opens with the death of sixteen-year-old lydia, the beloved middle child of marilyn and james lee. marilyn and james are a mixed-race chinese/caucasian couple living in a small town in ohio in the seven [...]

    3. Hmmmm. Quintessential MFA graduate writing, which is to say lyrical creative prose that captures emotion in the details, following the MFA formula of "show; don't tell," to provide character exposition. The author shows us the interiority of her characters brilliantly- and then goes on to slam us over the head with explicit "telling" as if we're complete morons who can't figure it out for ourselves. Furthermore the themes that guide the relationships in this family are so over the top and one no [...]

    4. I received this book for review from Penguin Boy oh boy was I impressed by this book. Before I started reading it I was expecting something Lovely Bones esc. No. So much better. This story is kicks off with the reader finding out about the death of the "favorite child" Lydia, with this I assumed it would just be an emotional book about finding the cause of death ect ect. Nope. But also yes. This book's scope is beyond what I was first expecting and branches off in so many directions as we follow [...]

    5. Gorgeously written. Really subtle storytelling but the tension built in a really excruciating, smart way that kept me holding my breath. I also love how Ng approached writing the challenges of identity and difference for both women and people of color, as well as how much the burden of expectations can truly weigh.

    6. The first chapter was great. I was expecting an exciting mystery/thriller. I was anxious to find out how Lydia disappeared. Then, the rest of the book happened.I hated all of the characters. I hated the perfectly executed sentences. I hated the story. I hated the ending. Oh, and I really hated how half of the book was written in italics. I would usually insert something sarcastic or witty here about the use of italics in the book, but I just can't do it. But, man, I hated her overuse of slanting [...]

    7. I did not enjoy reading this book. The story of this broken family was just so sad and I found that the more I read, the harder it was to read. I felt a constant knot in my stomach .Yet I gave it four stars.It’s the 1970's and James of Chinese descent, born in the U.S has since he was a young boy, just wanted to fit in. The racism he experiences through his life follows to present day and to his mixed race children. He focuses his need and desire to fit in on his middle daughter, Lydia. He wan [...]

    8. 5 Stars.Have you ever felt invisible? Like you were hiding in plain sight? Or like you just didn't measure up? Like you have to fake it till you make it? For the Lee family, this is par for the course, for each member of the family has felt one or more of these things at one time in their lives, if not for their entire lives. James and Marilyn Lee are a Chinese-American couple with three children, Nath, Lydia and Hannah. Growing up Chinese in the 50's, James, was an outsider - he longed to fit i [...]

    9. 4.5 Stars”Lydia is dead. But they don’t know this yet. 1977, May 3, six thirty in the morning, no one knows anything but this innocuous fact: Lydia is late for breakfast.” This is how the book begins. They hit like a punch, knocking the wind out of you, these first sentences. And yet, while this part of the story runs throughout these pages, each person viewing the circumstances that led to her death in their own, inimitable way, this is the story of the years before, of all that led up to [...]

    10. Lydia is dead. But they don’t know this yet.So begins this exquisite novel about a Chinese American family living in 1970s small-town Ohio. Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee, and her parents are determined that she will fulfill the dreams they were unable to pursue. But when Lydia’s body is found in the local lake, the delicate balancing act that has been keeping the Lee family together is destroyed, tumbling them into chaos.I'm pleased with my decision to put a few weeks [...]

    11. WHAT A GREAT BOOK. I'm mad at myself for waiting so long to pick this up, and I sort of wish I'd read my physical copy rather than listening to the audiobook, but whatever. It was still really great! This is the type of book I feel would be more enjoyable on the page than on audio, but with that being said the audiobook was well done.This is the story of a dysfunctional family dealing with the death of 16-year-old Lydia, the middle child. You get to see snapshots of each family member's life, in [...]

    12. Gorgeous, tenderly rendered story about a family tragedy with deep roots.The book’s opening is austere: “Lydia is dead. But they don’t know this yet. 1977, May 3, six thirty in the morning, no one knows anything but this innocuous fact: Lydia is late for breakfast.” From the bare bones of that terrible fact, the story blooms, tendril after tendril, the past entwining the present and reaching into the future.James Lee is an American-born Chinese professor of history, teaching at Middlewoo [...]

    13. 3.5 stars - what an intense, dark, thought-provoking book. This will stay on my mind for a long time. I feel a mixture of emotions after finishing this. The telling of the story and writing was excellent. The story itself was very intriguing, but very sad.My heart broke for the children in the Lee family. What started out as a 'forbidden' love story between Marilyn and James, ended with a death due to unrealistic expectations pushed too far on a child. I was frustrated with James and Marilyn thr [...]

    14. Lydia is dead. But they don't know this yet.The blue-eyed 16 year old daughter of an Asian father and a Caucasian has died in the spring of 1977, the year that the summer will be punctuated with gun shots from the Son of Sam. Lydia goes to bed the night before she dies like it's any other night. In the morning she is gone. A couple of days later her body is found in the middle of a lake. This book is about how and why she died. But more than that it's about the lives of herself, her parents, her [...]

    15. Find all of my reviews at: 52bookminimum/“They will dissect this last evening for years to come. What had they missed that they should have seen? What small gesture, forgotten, might have changed everything? They will pick it down to the bones, wondering how this had all gone so wrong, and they will never be sure.”Hrrrrrrrrm. Good news is, I don’t think it’s necessarily only me this time. The problem for me with Everything I Never Told You was with the characters. I don’t mind unsympat [...]

    16. Everything I never told you is the debut novel by Celeste Ng and tells a powerful and yet quiet stroy about the Lee family who are coming to terms with losing their teenage daughter. The story is beautifully told and the prose has an eloquence to it that you only come across once in awhile in novels.This is not only the story of a Chinese-American family losing a teenage daughter, it is a story of racism, of a family trying to fit into a community and a community that fails to see a family in cr [...]

    17. Everything I Knew Told Your by Celeste Ng is a 2015 Penguin Books publication. As I began this book, my mind was a clean slate, with absolutely no preconceived ideas about it, so I was really surprised by it, and stunned by my emotional response to it. Once I started it, I literally did not move from the couch until I had turned the last page. One of the main topics addressed here is the interracial marriage between a white woman, Marilyn, and an American Chinese man, James, who marry in the lat [...]

    18. 4.5 starsLet me tell you: Everything I Never Told You belongs on my imaginary "omg-omg-omg" shelf. Some books spin me into a hazy trance, while others wrap up my attention with such ferocity that I have no choice but to whisper-scream "omg-omg-omg" as I read them. Celeste Ng's sharp storytelling, three-dimensional characters, and incisive writing all made me say "omg-omg-omg" over and over throughout her debut novel, something I have not done for at least a month.Lydia is dead, but her family do [...]

    19. From the opening sentence, I could tell this was going to be a somewhat difficult read. In the fifties, mixed marriages were frowned on, not just black and white, but in this case Chinese and white. Marilyn had long wanted to be a doctor at a time when woman were expect4d to marry, keep house, have children and not much else. Then she meets James, A Chinese professor and finds out she is having his child, her plans change and they marry.A story about expectations, about fitting in or not, being [...]

    20. My heart may have broken in half while reading this. Incredibly sad, powerful, and beautifully written. youtube/watch?v=fHJeT

    21. This is a dark drama. I did not find much hope in the story. Maybe others will disagree, but it is a fairly depressing story.It was still a good book, even if my mood grew darker as the story went along. I think that the overall story was interesting and the relationships in the story are written well. Also, the development along the way is fascinating even if gloomy.There is a lot of poorly defined time jumping, but, while that has bothered me in other books, I was okay with it here. Somehow I [...]

    22. This was a really frustrating, sad, and uncomfortable read for me and wish that I could have felt more of a connection with these characters. I almost didn't finish listening to this and thought I would probably have enjoyed it much more if I read the print copy of this book instead. The characters mostly came across as angry, disrespectful, and rude which made it really hard for me to empathize with these characters and the story.

    23. Absolutely exquisite writing. Lyrical! Luminous! Gorgeous! Elegant! A book full of deep feeling!!! Page after page after page!!!!!We are reminded that it can take decades to comprehend the past, let alone make amends with it. Unsentimental t a brave-bold-heart-baring story. "Everything I Never Told You" is one of the best books I've read this year!!!!!!

    24. This book is too much for me to deal with right now. Right book, wrong timing. Some people might think the writing is a little hammy or overly done, but my biggest issue is my lack of attachment to the characters in the face of such serious issues. It's definitely a dark book, which proved to be more than I can handle emotionally at the moment, so about halfway through I started skimming to the end. I wasn't surprised by the ending, so I obviously got the gist of the last half of it just fine. O [...]

    25. First off, this is not a feel-good story, but it certainly does pack a punch. the gut. In fact, it made me sad and mad simultaneously.James and Marilyn self-absorbed parentsrce their own lost hopes and dreams in life upon their poor children (particularly their favorite Lydia) that more often than not causes jealousy and makes all three miserable to boot.As a mixed-race family in the 1970's, their struggles of dealing with ignorant people and their stupid prejudices adds more pressure to an alre [...]

    26. 5★There is an empty boat loosed from it's mooring and Lydia Lee is missing. “People decide what you’re like before they even get to know you. They think they know all about you. Except you’re never who they think you are.”Oh my, such exquisite writing and storytelling.Each paragraph like a knot on a silken cord leading you in the darkness of a maze twisting with family secrets, lies, and heartbreak. I started reading and could not stop. It’s difficult to describe how the reader can b [...]

    27. wowI am totally drained.Celeste Ng takes you completely out of your comfortable surroundings and SLAMS you into the minds and souls of every person in this book who are going through a seemingly irremediable tragedy. You experience all their heartache, pain, hopelessness, and regrets. Most of all, it's the love that is felt so deeply but never openly expressed that shatters their world and will not allow you to abandon them nor this book--no matter how difficult it is to read.I truly loved this [...]

    28. This was by no means a light hearted read. It was heartbreaking, heavy and at times, incredible difficult and painful to read but it was also fantastic. So much was dealt with in this book and even after finishing it, I feel as though I'm continuing to pick up on even more each time I think about it. The insight into life in 50's-70's America for POC (specifically Lydia's family in which their father was Chinese having moved to American and they mother was white) was incredibly enlightening and [...]

    29. The first two lines of the novel:“Lydia is dead. But they don’t know that yet.”Is this the beginning of a great story, or just a gimmicky hook? If you are looking for a suspense or crime thriller, you will be largely disappointed. This is a domestic drama about a Chinese-American man (born in the US), James Lee, his blonde, Caucasian wife, Marilyn, and their three children. Lydia, just sixteen, is the middle child, the one that they have projected their dreams onto, although James and Mari [...]

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